Friday, June 29, 2012

11 mos

WOW! I had these priceless pictures in my drafts from September 2011! Too cute not to post! One of the ways I don't let blogging get me stressed out is by getting a few posts ahead of myself so I always have a "few in the hopper" per say. Well, I'm behind on my drafts if you can believe that. I have so may pictures in my drafts ready to post, but no words with them.

Sometimes they speak for themselves.
I love (and miss) this water park in Naples so much!

oh my do i miss the crawling days too...

feeling fancy free

daddy too...

negotiating with Grandpa on when to go...


this was 9 months ago, but he still looks the same to me...

deep thoughts by Lilster

These 2 are so sweet together! Bonded forever...

G could eat her up with their size difference...


racing to the toys via crawling...

getting 2 babies to look at the camera at the same time is like finding Big Foot.

always the escape artist...

counting for her favorite game in the whole world...hide and go seek.

G making the moves on sweet Kinsley!

I think he's happy ...

love couple...

oh this one steals my heart!!!!!!

off to school...

barely standing on his own at this point...

but always up to mischief! some things never change.

life is good. then and now. :)

Thursday, June 28, 2012


G is chatting up a storm these days and some words are gobblygoop and others are made up by him and we know what he means , but he has the basic ones to get what he needs. (most of the time) Here we are in a parking lot eating in the car while we had some time to kill so I half buckled him in Lily's car seat and seeing his face in the rear view mirror reading his book to himself made me wanna hop back there with him. He's still rear facing so this sight made me so excited for when he's finally facing me!

Wednesday, June 27, 2012

Beep Beep

Grady has a new way of saying "excuse me". He teaches us something new everyday!

Tuesday, June 26, 2012

Friends Forever

Does this link work? I hope so because it's super cute! Turn on your speakers for 60 seconds of my day with these 2 adorable kids at play together!

Friday, June 22, 2012

runners, panhandlers, and rudolph all in one post

This is how far (times 200 more feet) Grady will run from me whenever we go to a park or anywhere for that matter. He's not running from me per say, but he's an explorer like Crocodile Dundee and can't be bothered with mulch and swings. He's on the go like he's he's late for his next business meeting.
and Lily always likes to be close and have me in her eyesight at all times.

they couldn't be more different if I drew it out on paper. And lily is quite the little dancer lately. Like won't stop and will break it down wherever we go. Grady is following suit too and his favorite move is spinning around in circles. Lily is more of a hip shaker. Check out this adorable video with Chuck shaking her booty without a care in the world who was watching. I love when she lets her hair down and shows her adventurous side.

can't see it, click here
"Cotton Candy" who she fell in love with when she created her at Grace's 6th birthday party had a major tear in her for no apparent reason so we brought her to Build A Bear for "surgery" and Lily was sure to give her a post surgery bath.

I've always wanted them to do some type of charity work and they're still a little (a lot) young for schlepping mashed potatoes and gravy at a homeless shelter on Thanksgiving morning so we've been making sandwiches for the panhandlers we see much more of on the east coast. There's been many awkward moments at red lights when Lily asks a gabillion questions about why that man in standing in the heat holding a beat up cardboard sign, walking up and down aimlessly between the cars. So finally we made one of the 100 a bagged lunch and gave them to the first panhandler we found. He didn't have any teeth and said thank you and God bless you about 23 times and DEVOURED the peanut butter sandwich in less than 5 seconds. I think it was gone before the light turned green and lily's eyes were as big as the moon. Priceless.

these 2 are becoming fast friends...

here are a set of pictures that slipped through the cracks from Christmas; mainly because we were packing up and moved just 4 days after christmas. ugh! totally crazy time emphasizing the fact that moving does indeed suck the life right outta you. I digress.

Rudolph kissed everyone in the house while they were sleeping so we all had red noses to prove it....Lily was a little freaked out by this idea so I downplayed it that Rudolph only blew her a kiss and she fell for it hook line and sinker.

and I love this picture of the cousins Jen took at the last minute - wish allison and anna were in it too

and my friend Amy had a creative gingerbread house making was a first for me and so neat for lily to experience such a festive event with her friends.

her pal Bridget and no I didn't photoshop her beautiful eyes - i wouldn't know how to if i wanted.

such concentration from all the girls you could've heard a pin drop - or maybe it was because their mouths were full of sweet candy.

oh how we miss all of our girlfriends...big and small :)

i could stare at her all day when she's in a group setting with other kids or adults; watching her little face taking it all in and becoming more independent with every social gathering and still trying to find her footing on where she fits in it all.

she sure fit in with the big and little girls like a glove with the giggles and games.

It's fun to look back a little and realize how blessed we are!

Thursday, June 21, 2012


More videos! Oldies by goodies!! Posting all the posts i have in my drafts so we may be taking a trip down memory lane until we're all caught up :)

Grady was doing the peek in peek a boo....

a carol if you were in the mood....

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his first steps in november....

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loving on aunt jeffer


play time in the old house...oh how i miss the crawling days...

such a baby here...


Wednesday, June 20, 2012


A break from the 100s of pictures I can't wait to post for some videos. I don't think I've posted these yet, but stop me if I have. Or watch them again. Whatever floats your boat!

I love these 2 together.
peek a boo

He vacillates between his love for Curious George and Elmo, but Elmo has been taking the lead lately. We're torn between the 2 themes for his 2nd birthday. I can't believe I'm even thinking about his 2nd birthday party! Gulpola!!


This is an older video, but the voice is just as sweet.


He's the best meow'er on the planet. Gets a raspy edge going...


I got david a bike for father's day and now we can go for family bike rides since lily is doing a lot of this lately. I can't imagine the day when all 4 of us are on a bike. Oh my sweetness thinking of us all looking like ducks in a row going down the sidewalk!


Lily reading about her favorite character of all time. Berenstain Bears have been giving Dora a run for Dora's money these days tho.


Life is good! :)

Sunday, June 17, 2012

Happy Father's Day 2012

I never know who to say Happy Father's Day to first because there's David, my dad and David's dad. All 3 men are amazing in their own right and it's crazy to try to celebrate them all just so. Then there's my incredible brother in laws and friend's dads are great too; although they're not my dad still they are an inspiration in the dad world too.

So I'll start with David. When we married in 2001, he had zero experience with kids. As in never changed a diaper, soothed a meltdown, or even read a child a story as far as I knew. I would oooo and aaaah over babies at church and he'd give me the obligatory "yea they're cute" but they didn't make him do heart cartwheels like they did to me. I knew he'd be a great dad because he had a wonderful father himself as a role model and was just a nice guy all around, but you never know until that baby is placed in your arms.

Then we couldn't have babies for a very long time and I saw his support, drive and determination on the long path we took to get there and I knew he was going to be an amazing father because he loved our baby that we hadn't even conceived yet so I got a sneak peek for 4 years as we struggled, falling in love with him even more as we both unturned every stone possible.

Once Lily was born, I assumed I'd be the expert in child rearing and he'd follow my lead. I had 15 + years experience with children as a teacher and a counselor so of course I'd be the one we'd go to for answers. He is the one we go to with questions about finance since that's his field so it seemed almost natural that I'd play that role.

But that's not exactly how it happened. Yes, I helped and coached him through Lily's first tantrums and the proper verbiage to use, but he has become an expert in his own way teaching me things about being patient, learning everything is a phase and not to get overly worried about much. He just goes with the flow about most things with Lily and Grady and doesn't outwardly show worry about anything pertaining to them. Always the rock and soft place to fall with them and with me. I remember being in the hospital after lily was born and he rolled over in his sleep, sat up for a minute and said to himself out loud "I can't believe she's ours" and I smiled inside knowing the amazing father I was about to meet.

Rivers run deep with David and he has so many layers to him, but the average person wouldn't know that just from meeting him. He's not the type that wears his heart on his sleeve, but he does with the kids and they have such a hold on his heart; it's beautiful to watch them interact. And learn from. I thought I knew David so well after being married to him for 6 years before having kids, but they have pulled out this part of him I never knew existed.

He's a movie star when he gets home from work. You can set your watch for when he'll be home so the kids always know he's dependable and always there for a hug and kiss anytime of the day. Especially when he gets home from work. And they cover him with octopus arms we like to call it.

He always puts his kids first and I'm always urging him to do something for himself, like golfing, fishing or even play cards with the guys, but his favorite place to be is with them. They are wrapped around his heart and they know it and feel secure there.

What a gift he's giving to them and he doesn't even realize the extent of how far this will take them in life.

Even though he didn't have years and years of experience with children before Lily and Grady, he's such a natural because he was filled up and marinated in love by his family for the 30 years prior to Lily and Grady entering the world and that's paid off ten fold. So he continues the tradition of love and passing on more than he can ever imagine.

He is a get down on the floor and play with the kids kinda dad. If he had a choice to do anything in the world, it would definitely include being with his kids.

It's neat to share this life with someone who loves these amazing souls as much as I do ; even though that level of love is unattainable to touch and indescribable with words for us both, I can see it in David's eyes and in his actions every single day.

I love seeing the joy the kids bring him and how they make him light up, step out of his shell and become a kid again too.

I've never seen him lose his cool with them and even though they can push some buttons, he is cool, calm and collected during it all.

He packs lunches, changes diapers, gives baths, does laundry, cleans like company is coming and is an awesome person to have on this crazy team called life. He does it all unsolicited and I want to scream out loud in appreciation for all he does for his family.

Whenever he gets on my nerves about silly things, I think about all he does for us and suddenly the annoyance dwindles and I think about how lucky we are to have him.

The biggest thing he has taught me as a parent, is the ability to be present with the kids and he never seems to multi task.

He's never on his iPad, texting, watching tv or on his phone or thinking about the laundry that needs to be folded when he's with them. It's like the whole world stops spinning when they're around.

I don't know how he does it, but it's inspiring to see and I'm constantly learning from him.

and the kids reap the rewards everyday because of him and you can see it in their eyes and never-ending smiles.

One of the driving forces behind David's inspiring fatherhood is his own dad Larry. He has a heart of gold and nothing is more important to him than family. Nothing.
He's a good ole boy with a strong southern accent and the salt of the earth kind of guy. He has the best sense of humor and is like a second dad to me. He and my dad are best of buds too which is super cool and a win-win for everyone.

I know where David gets his kindness and patience from and I tell his parents thank you constantly for giving everything they had in them to raise David and his brother into such awesome men.

He loves to fish and hunt and has passion for anything he does.

and the most important thing in his world is that his family is happy and he's with them.

and he'd help them at a moments notice or a stranger on the street. He's just that kind of guy you fall in love as soon as you meet him. You can see his gentle heart and kindness just in his eyes.

Lily and Grady don't know just quite how lucky they are to have such the support system they have, but we realize the power of his influence and everyone around them that subconsciously chant "you are special. you are loved. you are important. you matter." with the quality time they spend with them.

and that is a gift they'll have for the rest of their lives.

and nothing brings me more joy as a mom to see them light up when they're together.

and bring out the kid in them again.

As their Papa, he gets to enjoy and love on them without any worry attached which seems like the best of everything in one breath. Our kids benefit and are so lucky because of him.

And then strolls in my dad. For the last 37 years, he's been the epitome of what a good dad should be. I tried to capture what he means to me and his family in our moving post and his bday post, but don't think words could ever do it justice. He's ALWAYS been there for his matter what.

I don't think he ever missed one of my soccer games or activities at school and is the guy everyone in our family calls to hang a fan, wait for the refrigerator guy, volunteer in our classrooms, or tell you what's on sale at WalMart.

I have a voicemail from his last night telling me where to get peanuts on sale this week then a text this morning that my favorite candy nips are on sale at Walgreens this week.

If you think he's a great dad, you can only imagine what a great Grandpa he is to his 6 grandkids. He eats up all the pictures and stories like his life depended on it and listens and hangs on your every word when you're telling a story about one of them. He relives his joy of being a father all over again when he's with his grandkids retelling the stories of us when we were young.

I get newspaper articles from him daily that he thinks will interest us and it could be for one of the girls or a video he thinks Lily or Grady might find entertaining.

This is the first Father's Day in a long time we haven't been together and when I called him to wish him a Happy Father's Day he said "everyday is father's day when I have such neat kids like you Jen and Molly and the way you treat me." I almost dropped the phone.
The kids face lights up when he enters the room...and so does his.

He is another great one who is present and fully engaged with the kids when he's with them. He's never distracted and retells cute things they did to anyone who will listen.

He's a jokester, reads a million and 1 books with them, would jump in the bounce house with them, walks the neighborhood with them holding a publix bag, picking up litter with the kids teaching them the importance of being responsible.

He was a great role model growing up and that legacy continues into grandparenthood.

So there's lots to celebrate on this Father's Day. I feel so lucky to have the influence of these strong men in Lily and Grady's life and mine as well. Then there's Uncle Duane, Uncle Dan, and Uncle Jamie too that are in the chain of powerful role models for everyone on this wonderful holiday where we celebrate such great fathers. I'm constantly learning from each one of them in so many different ways and can't believe how much I've hit the father jackpot from everyone.

Happy Father's Day to all of you for working so hard for your families!!

and just for giggles, to look back at previous father's days we've shared since David became a dad, click for
2009, 2009-part 2
2011, 2011, 2011 we were in SC for Father's Day last year so it was a 3 parter.

Happy Father's Day to all the amazing fathers out there who are the whole world to your children. xoxo